So I’m a leader by most people’s standards. That being said, I also recognize when I’m not in a position to command people, like at work when I’m not a manager. That being said, I’m more of a servant/laze fair leader so it’s sometimes hard to see that in me. I’m no happier than when I’m leading people though. I’ve led a small group for around 3-5 years as well. I know there are people I need to follow at the same time though. My church leaders, my denominational leaders, my government, etc. So basically, a good leader is a servant leader. Someone who leads through serving others needs. Likewise, any good leader is also subject to some higher authority as well, even if that authority is God Himself. So all in all, I’m a leader not a follower